Alabaster Box

John Piper spoke to my heart this morning. I have been wrestling within myself lately fighting back the sometimes overwhelming desire for marriage. This longing is so strong, and yet I do desire for true contentment in the Lord with or without a husband. But many times, I lose the battle God wants me to [...]

Filed under: My Life, Reflections, Singleness on February 13th, 2009 | 13 Comments »

A beautiful fog rolled in this morning. I actually savor foggy weather, especially when I can stay at home and enjoy it from my windows. Fog somehow transports me to a foreign country across the seas, like Europe, where I am sipping tea and writing long letters sealed with wax. (my imagination is working perfectly [...]

Filed under: My Life, Reflections, Singleness on December 27th, 2008 | 12 Comments »

A few months ago, I received an email from a young woman asking for tips on how to stay pure. She writes:
I found your blog while googling the quote: “A woman’s heart should be so hidden in Christ that a man has to seek Him first to find her.” I am 20 years old and have a [...]

Filed under: Femininity, Reflections, Scripture, Singleness on December 10th, 2008 | 10 Comments »

Yes, I am still single… but I saw this over at Jasmine’s blog written by a very wise Mrs. Christine. I found these insights extremely helpful and a much needed encouragement to us single gals. May these remind us to make the most of our season of singleness.
Ten Things I Wish I’d Known When I [...]

Filed under: Femininity, Reflections, Singleness on October 14th, 2008 | 17 Comments »

The chapter I quoted yesterday still holds more wisdom for us. Mrs. Elliot continues to unfold the desires of our hearts and correct wrong perceptions on God’s timing and refusals.
As we wait for the spouses, God-willing, He is preparing, we may flutter through many stages of impatience. We may become extremely desperate; wishing every moment [...]

Filed under: Reflections, Singleness on August 26th, 2008 | 10 Comments »

The question is familiar. My birthday was coming to an end and my thoughts settled on what the future could possibly hold for me. The question surfaced. This has happened every year since I turned 18. As soon as I reached the “age of marriage” my thoughts were consumed with the romantic possibilities. You might [...]

Filed under: Reflections, Singleness on August 25th, 2008 | 22 Comments »

Last night I walked the beach alone. The evening tide brushed against my legs and the glow of the setting sun transformed the sea into a vivid watercolor painting. Seagulls called to one another in the air as the breeze danced around me. I plodded on through the sand then turned around to head back [...]

Filed under: Reflections, Scripture, Singleness on June 10th, 2008 | 19 Comments »